Here is some practical advice on how to be successful


It is a sad aspect of live but not everyone can be successful. In the world we live in there are winners and losers. Most people want to be in the group of winners but unfortunately many remain where they stand. As you well know, being successful means to stand above the others around you or to know more that the one sitting next to you does.

You should understand how to have more success than your colleague and to work for success. Success doesn’t come free or cheap, you have to pay for it. The price is not monetary but it is expressed in manners of time and effort, these being precious details that you can’t receive back once you gave them away. Success is hard. Generally speaking to be successful you have to work hard, be educated and have a little bit of luck. Often you have to try many times until you truly reach success.

Not being successful is simple: you make all the wrong choices, you work without ethics, the lack of responsibility and of education is almost everything. Although it is not obvious the lack of success is also a choice, but a choice that can be gained on the first try.

Here is some practical advice on how to be successful:
  • Build up a purpose in life, create a plan and go on living by it.
  • Alter your behavior and learn good manners.
  • Always read, always learn and always communicate.
  • Think and act fast when faced with an opportunity. If you see what you really want don’t let any chances pass you by. This one might just be the last you will get.
  • Give up bad habits and keep the good ones: eat well and regularly, get enough sleep, go to a gym or just go jogging.
  • Give up watching so much television, or playing games.
  • Try to work more in the shortest possible period of time.
  • Keep your sense of humor but don’t become rude.
  • Cherish everything you have and get.
  • Find out more, be responsible, learn about control and always stay informed.


A virus is a program


A virus is a program – a piece of executable code – that has the possibly of cloning itself. Computer viruses can spread fast and they are hard to eradicate. They can be attached to any type of file and they are spread as files copied and sent from person to person. They can be contacted from a floppy disk or Cd, they can be launched when opening a program or accessing a file, any file, or they can be brought from the internet by downloading a file or accessing a web page and as attachments to e-mails.

Besides replication, some viruses have something else in common: their infecting routine. The behaviors of viruses vary from showing messages or images to destroying files, formatting the hard disk drive and other severe damage. If the virus does not inflict damage it can still cause problems by taking up space and memory, lowering the performances of the computer.

Nine rules for avoiding viruses would be:
  1. Use an anti virus program at all times.
  2. Install and keep active a firewall.
  3. Make sure your system is up-to-date with all the existent updates.
  4. Keep your browsers security settings at maximum.
  5. Never click yes when your browser asks you if you want to install or open some content coming from an organization you don’t know or don’t trust.
  6. Install an anti-spy ware program to enlarge the protection.
  7. 7. Never install a browser help or search bar accepting the times it comes from a reliable source.
  8. 8. Use a different credit card for online shopping.
  9. 9. Don’t click on email attachments that are executable files even if they look as if sent from known persons.
The antivirus programs have a big role in providing your computers security and protecting it from viruses, worms, Trojan horses and other “invaders” that can attack a computer. The role of an antivirus program is to detect the presence of viruses in a computer, to disinfect the files or delete the ones that can’t be disinfected and prevent the contamination of the computer.

Most of the companies that produce antivirus have online free tools for scanning computers for viruses. If you don’t have an antivirus yet and can’t decide which one to buy you can enter their online sites and try the services for free, then decide what to use.

or playing with the food, express yourself clearly as if you are the one that has a problem.

”What did you really mean by that?”

When kids fight and get nervous, it is possible for them to say things like “I hate you”. but that doesn’t have to scare you because these are the first words that come to mind when they are engaged in a conflict with their friends. But you can help them get over it and make them think of what was it that made them so nervous and angry.

”People are different and they have different needs.”

When you here you child say for the thousandth time “But this is not fair”, you have to make them understand that the reason that makes people be treated differently is the fact they have different needs.


Rindu itu memang tertuju padamu, ibu


Suara lembutmu, belaianmu pada rambutku, usapan mungilmu itu, semuanya masih kuingat sampai sekarang…. Air mata ini memang mengalir untukmu, ibu.

Mungkin aku tak bisa lagi selalu di sampingmu, memelukmu, mendengar ceritamu, aku merindukan semua itu.…

Terkadang memang kau marah, tapi itu karena perilaku dan salahku. Dan engkau pantas memarahiku. Akulah yg tak sepantasnya membuatmu kecewa. Wanita yg mempertaruhkan nyawa hanya agar aku bisa melihat dunia ini.…

“Kami perintahkan kepada manusia supaya berbuat baik kepada dua orang ibu bapaknya, ibunya mengandungnya dengan susah payah, dan melahirkannya dengan susah payah (pula). Mengandungnya sampai menyapihnya adalah tiga puluh bulan, sehingga apabila dia telah dewasa dan umurnya sampai empat puluh tahun ia berdo’a:…

Ya Allah…

Tunjukilah aku untuk mensyukuri nikmat Engkau yang telah Engkau berikan kepadaku dan kepada ibu bapakku dan supaya aku dapat berbuat amal yang saleh yang Engkau ridhai. berilah kebaikan kepadaku dengan (memberi kebaikan) kepada anak cucuku. Sesungguhnya aku bertaubat kepada Engkau dan sesungguhnya aku termasuk orang-orang yang berserah diri.” (Qs. Al-Ahqaaf : 15)…

Bahkan doamu padaku, tak pernah berhenti. Malunya aku yg terkadang lalai melampirkan namamu dalam doa-doaku….

Ibu, bakti ini, kutujukan padamu. Kasih sayang ini, aku akan selalu berikan untukmu. Sungguh, kusadari semua itu tak senilai dengan apa yg telah engkau berikan padaku. Namun, semoga dengan aku berusaha terus menjadi anak yg sholehah doaku untukmu bisa selalu di dengar oleh Allah Swt.…

Aamiin ya Allah
Terima kasih Ibu..…
Salam Santun Sahabat…


Filosofi KOPI - Ngopi itu ibarat percintaan...


Filosofi KOPI - Ngopi itu ibarat percintaan... Tak selamanya ia manis....pun tak seterusnya pahit... Begitupun Percintaan.... Kadang ia terasa begitu Manis, walaupun kadang sedikit pahitnya konflik menyelinginya..

Tapi justru Karena itulah Kopi dirindukan, Karena kalau hanya manis semata maka tentu akan membosankan..dan bila pahit terus tentu itu menyedihkan..

Maka bila dalam momen momen percintaan ada sesuatu yg engkau rasa pahit, maka yakinlah bhw kelak dikemudian hari Engkau akan setuju bhw justru yg pahit itulah yg memperindah momentum momentum kita dlm percintaan...

Mari Ngopi...


Ingat... !!! Pujilah Pasanganmu Kalau Tidak....


Salah satu yang dilupakan dalam hubungan suami istri adalah saling memuji satu dan lainnya. Istri lupa memuji suami dan suami lupa memuji istrinya. Karena pujian seperti ini bisa membangkitkan hubungan yang mungkin makin redup.

Ingat.. yang keluar itu bukan kata-kata jelek atau merendahkan yang keluar dari mulut seorang suami.

Pujian dari suami pada istrinya tidak butuh biaya atau ongkos mahal. Yang dibutuhkan adalah ketulusan dan rasa cinta pada pasangan.

Rasulullah Shalallahu Alaihi Wasallam bersabda:

“Sebaik-baik kalian adalah yang berbuat baik kepada keluarganya. Sedangkan aku adalah orang yang paling berbuat baik pada keluargaku”

(HR. Tirmidzi no. 3895, Ibnu Majah no. 1977, Ad Darimi 2: 212, Ibnu Hibban 9: 484. Syaikh Al Albani mengatakan bahwa hadits ini shahih).